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To start March off I had two seizures in my sleep which left me tired and cranky all weekend. Since then, when I have slept I've had nightmares.

We have to wait a minimum of 6 weeks for the DNA results for my son, maybe up to 3 months. So I'm on a holding pattern of a bouncing back and forth between numb, ****ed off and devastated. I just want to hide from the world right now. I know my grief won't go away once the funereal is over, but I just want some closure and not have to deal with my ex and his family any more.
sorry for your loss. Stress can do this too. I too have epilepsy. Grand mal seizures. I understand and feel for you. Mine was due to sub arachanoid cyst in brain. Surgery at 16. Took 6years to get under control. Seizure free 15 years now with meds. Now only 1. Sometimes medications triger mine so I have a list. Enough sleep in key too. Keep a diary. Foods may trigger too. I can't have grapefruit with the med I am on. No matter don't like it anyway. My friend started after she was n a bad car accident. I helped her through it and it ws 6 years for her too. She is doing well. I am now 51. Take care of yourself too.
 
Mrs. Sardog, I read your posts on the other board about your son. My heart aches for you and your hubby. Please know I'm praying for you all, and that you have as quick an answer and resolution as is possible. I can't imagine having to deal with difficult ex's at such a terrible time.
 
Because he could put off the pain by not saying anything? Because he knew you would call him in sick? Teenagers are often foolish but rarely stupid: he has dealt with this the way he liked best.

Raising DD has made my cynical about teens, I am afraid. She could cry real tears at will: it took me a bit before I realized that she was conning me.

DD often lied to her teachers as well but I flat out refused to lie for her. I would have told the school the truth. If thy do not like it then kids can avoid putting us in that position, which I very much preferred! Oh, she still would not have gone to school but she would not have tried to et me to lie for her.

As I said before, my own DD had mental issues and so they had her finish school on a computer class. Mostly my district uses it for seniors who want to work but they need just one or two classes, but my DD took an entire semester that way as she would not stay in class any longer.

I do not talk about it much as folks would think less of my parenting ability for not making her go to school, but DD is 6 inches taller than I am and sometimes she hallucinates. She can also cry loudly by the hour, literally, which was hard on the office staff. I am proud that she graduated from high school at all: it was not easy.

HOWEVER! She did not try to get me to lie for her as all teens have ego's, and she knew I would have told the truth. So DD did her own lying and left me out of it.

I love her dearly, but she does have a mental illness and now, at age 22, she is only STARTING to be able to deal with life.

I would simply tell your son that you will not lie to the school for him again. Then let him deal with any loss of face.

I agree; this is the last time I cover for him or his sister. She has a terrible time sleeping at night, so getting her up in the morning is a major ordeal. She's had me call her in requesting her to miss first block "By parental request." Tired of that one too..Can't wait til May.
 
My rant is about Doctors receptionist. Last week I rang up for an appointment, nope there wasn't any available for non-urgent but I could have a phone call. So phone call came, and Dr basically said my numb thumb was anatomically impossible. Spring forward to this week, I get a Drs appointment with a different Dr and now I have to go to hospital for blood tests, and maybe x-rays as it maybe Rheumatoid Arthritis. Bashing head against the wall, as I could have done this last week! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
 
The boy has missed so many days already this semester, and is flunking key classes. Why for the love of donuts couldn't he have said something last night, so his dad could have taken care of this in a timely manner??? Somebody is gonna have his ears sliced off when dad gets home tonight. This is just beyond ridiculous.
Maybe it's something he discovered is working for him because he hates school?
 
Maybe it's something he discovered is working for him because he hates school?
Maybe, but he just got grounded to the upstairs, with no kindle, or tv until he gets all his work turned in for all classes. We get daily reports for every subject. I don't think he hates school so much as he prefers to think about other things.
 
He could be bored. Bub was like that until his teachers caught on and started giving him harder work then his grades went up. Now homeschooling, I am having to wrack my brain for science stuff because he did everything I already had! He is excelling in math too.

Speak with his teachers about giving him harder material. He could be bored
 
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He could be bored. Bub was like that until his teachers caught on and started giving him harder work then his grades went up. Now homeschooling, I am having to wrack my brain for science stuff because he did everything I already had! He is excelling in math too.

Speak with his teachers about giving him harder material. He could be bored
Free MIT courses (online).

Other colleges and universities also have them.

If he does well enough, have him take the test for credit or the CLEP/DANTES test (cheaper) so he doesn't have to take course again in college. Check to see how long the test scores are good for traditional students, though.
 
Another round of ice and snow for w. KY. Sigh. Yesterday was the first day in 2 weeks I could see my yard. Can't remember how long it's been since one snow has lasted so long. So we get a one-day reprieve, and it starts again. Sleet, then sleet and snow. No snow yet. Just sleet and snow. Sigh.

On the other hand, this is first time Mr. Weft has had a job where he can work on-line from home and not risk his life or our vehicle. I enjoy having him here, even if he's just cursing at the "idiots" that can't figure out how to hook up to their connections. He's sys admin, but help desk goes bye-bye on snow days, and he hates help desk. Seriously. If you can't remember the steps to get to your profile, can't you be intelligent enough to write them down in a list. Or your password? Apparently not.
 
We got between 8-12.5 inches, with drifts up to two feet. That may be usual for MN or Alaska, but it's not here. Glad I wasn't traveling an interstate yesterday afternoon. Oy, chihuahua, what a mess.

The first 4 hours were sleet and snow. At least it stopped sleeting before things began to break, um, tree limbs and electric lines. Mr. Weft got the front porch cleared and around the cars. The driveway is too long to clear without a snowblade or blower, neither of which we have. He did get it packed down in front of a vehicle and dug out at the road entrance, which the snow plows piled up, so he can get out tomorrow. Our main county highways are clear, but that's about it.

I feed the little birds during snow. Well, sigh, I try to feed the little birds, but sometimes the starlings drive me nuts. I've switched over mostly to just cracked corn for them right now. Have had to keep the food mill attached to the table, which grinds Mr. Weft because he somehow can't keep his thigh from whacking the handle in the narrow path between table and fridge. Discovered a half-full, 30-gallon can of rough cracked corn I'd been playing with two years ago before Mom went down-hill fast and had forgotten about. Eh. It's about weevil eaten up, but the birds don't seem to care.

ATST, I remember my time in San Angelo. There was actually a snow storm while I was stationed there. Those of us from snowier country didn't dare venture out off base fearing native Texans' inexperience with snow. Maybe not fair, but it seemed sensible at the time.
 
24 mile roadblock on I65. At least some people planned to be stranded. Flooding in my hometown, cresting way above flood stage. Not many prepared. Getting lots of grief for telling people that they should have done something over the weekend to prepare.

They will never learn.
Nope. Mother Nature will never give them grief. The world will never not be what they're used to. The roads and bridges will always be there. The grocery stores will always be accessible and, to boot, full when their 3-day supply of food runs out. There will always be electricity for lighting and heating.

You can't win when telling them what they "should have done." Nobody likes to hear they screwed up and what they should have done. Makes them feel inferior. Maybe you just need to phrase it as, "Use this experience to help you if it happens again. I can, ya know."
 
Nope. Mother Nature will never give them grief. The world will never not be what they're used to. The roads and bridges will always be there. The grocery stores will always be accessible and, to boot, full when their 3-day supply of food runs out. There will always be electricity for lighting and heating.

You can't win when telling them what they "should have done." Nobody likes to hear they screwed up and what they should have done. Makes them feel inferior. Maybe you just need to phrase it as, "Use this experience to help you if it happens again. I can, ya know."
Tried that too, it doesn't work. I shared links, lists, even offered to go shopping with some to show them what I had learned worked for us (which would work exactly the same for them, their house is very similar to ours) but they wouldn't have it. Said it would never get that bad, it never snows 2 feet here, the river hasn't crested above flood stage since 1977, there won't be so much ice that the trucks can't clear the roads. 7inches of river water standing in your driveway might not flood your house but it will freeze solid in 8° weather locking your vehicle in your driveway so you can't go grocery shopping.

I am at my wits end. I have half a mind to kidnap the kids SHTF and leave the parents to their own devices. They live on the way to Gramps and Moms so it's doable.
 
The sewing machine I won on ebay last week arrived today, and parts of it are broken. The tension knob [biggie], and the plug [no biggie], are broken. The motor case is cracked [biggie]. Some pieces of these were found rolling around in the case.
These were shown as unbroken in the listing, so I believe it was due to the machine bouncing around freely in the case during transport. They just stuck the machine in the case, and then put that in a huge box, with nothing stopping it from banging it's way around the countryside. HELLO?
The spool holders are bent, but not shown in the pictures, so I don't know if they were bent before or not. [fixable but why?]
The gear that winds the bobbin moves side to side, and it shouldn't. It should move in and out, and it doesn't. [biggie]
I opened the part of the case that contains the needlebar, and some dirt of unknown origin and a spring fell out. I don't know what the spring goes to, but it looks like it hasn't been attached to anything in quite some time. The dirt looked, um, well, not like dirt I've ever seen before.
I don't dare open the case that contains the wiggling bobbin gear!
The manual's pages are all stuck together, and the ones I peeled apart removed some of the printing, and are covered in mold, so I stopped trying to peel them apart. It appears they didn't open it to look inside. GROSS!!!!!!
How do you sell a machine that comes with a manual, and not even open one single page to look in the freakin thing? But then how do you not notice the pages sticking together, and not try to see if they are stuck or something? Mold? Really? Ugh!
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When plugged up it does turn on. I do not know much about sewing machines so I can not tell you much more. The original owners manual is included. It is very heavy. Comes with sewing kit and pedal, pedal seems to work fine
There may be more, but I stopped looking at it, because the damage I've seen is too much already. The parts that are damaged are the most valuable ones next to the cams. Even the feet are rusty.
I had to wash my hands after gently turning it over to inspect it. YUK
However, I am willing to make a deal to keep the cams if they ask right.

I expected some rust, and some minor repairs, tune up, ect, use it as spare, or sell the extra parts, but this is basically a boat anchor. There are no 'extra' parts, because the ones that are broken are the ones people buy. Makes me appriciate the one I got for $20 2 years ago. Looks almost new, and works.
 
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