I grew up listening to stories from my parents and older relatives who lived through the Depression. Back when there was no welfare, unemployment insurance, etc. People who grew up in a subsistence lifestyle mixed with moral teaching. Everyone was more or less in the same boat. My parents grew up in fishing outports, lived hand to mouth from the sea and the garden. Hand me down clothes were made to last through several kids in the family, etc.
Today, we are so for removed from that way of living, for the most part. More people are living in cities, towns and suburbs, all highly dependent upon the grid. In a way, people still do live hand to mouth, but they don't know it. That truck brings everything to a store and most of us drive there to buy it. Disrupt that grid and it quickly shudders to a halt. I drove 18-wheeler for a major national grocery company for 25 years. We had periods where a blackout shut everything down. Tons and tons of food, but not going anywhere because there was no electricity to power the distribution system. As a teenager I worked for the same company as a store clerk and remember the manual paper order book to replenish shelves. Now it is all computerized; very efficient but also very tenuous. A terrorist event, a solar flare, electrical storm or ice storm and it takes things down. So far we have always been lucky and it all came back online at some point.
I suppose what scares us the most is a scenario like something out of "Patriots" or some other fictional disaster novel. Something disrupts the normal day to day rhythms and it doesn't start again. We can cope with a region down for a while; in recent memory the events mentioned above. Forces from outside can assist. But when there is no "outside" from whence help may arrive, you are on your own. We all have our own particular nightmare; myself, I fear the collapse of the electrical grid in a major way, to such an extent that it is widespread and persistent in nature. That would be a disaster as ominous in implications as an asteroid strike, in my opinion. Imagine a natural or man-made EMP taking down a national grid.
I am fairly new to the movement and so I am still early days. I can't plan for everything at once, so I am starting with the more likely to occur but smaller in implication events, preparing for them and then gradually working my way up. A few years ago I was only mildly interested in this sort of thing, but events like Katrina and the massive electrical blackout here in Canada that took down a large grid in Quebec and left people in some areas without electricity for two months in winter opened my eyes to my personal vulnerability.
However, I am a keen observer of society and have been all my life, but even so I am stunned at how society has changed in terms of manners, customs and the like. My father would've smacked me if I didn't get up and offer a lady or elder person a seat on a bus. About fifteen years ago I was injured at work and had to travel into the city for pain management therapy. It was too painful to drive so I commuted by train and city transit: Most people just sitting there, wrapped up in their own little worlds, reading, listening to music and nobody offering to share a seat with a pregnant woman or old person. When I did so, in spite of my painful condition, I discern looks of sneering contempt from some people. It is a selfish world today, and the perfect symbol of this age is the selfie stick, a device which allows self absorbed people to photograph their favourite subject.
The rate of dependency upon food stamps, welfare and the like seems to be at an all time high, and I am stunned that the most agriculturally productive societies in the world need food banks. And yet even poor people today, thanks in part to generous welfare systems and various forms of wealth confiscation and redistribution, suffer from diseases of overindulgence: overweight, diabetes, etc. Heaven forbid if the gravy train stops running and they have to shift for themselves. Do you remember the YouTube videos of welfare queens hollering that their babies aint been fed since breakfast because the EBT card system went down? They feel entitled to demand that others feed their families. You just know what will happen if that system goes down and stays down.
How it goes down will vary by local circumstance. Large cities with significant areas of blight will be hell holes; in many ways they already are, only imagine it getting worse. I think people who are good in their core will try to remain such, and evil thinking people will only get worse. I'm approaching retirement in a decade or so and my hope is to get out of my suburban home to a rural area, with a larger piece of land so I can grow even more food than I currently do. I am learning skills of self sufficiency and doing what I can to prepare for various contingencies. But in the meanwhile I will live and be as good a person as I can, try to pass on the message to others and quietly mind my own business and learn while busily squirreling away what I can.
My personal plan, such as it is, involves family and coming together if there should be a challenge. Take care of our old folks and our youth. To me the prepping lifestyle makes perfect sense. It squares with my morality; I do not wish to ever be the man who has to steal from others to feed himself and his family because he was too lazy and self indulgent to prepare during the good times.