Just reviewed that Box of Truth link, and it got me thinking ...
you could frame a false wall up to say 4' high around the entire inside of your house, or maybe just a safe room large enough for everyone to fit into. Frame it with 6" studs attached to your existing walls. Fix 8'x4' sheets of drywall to those, line it with a dense weave material so when the rounds come through it sort of congeals back together to keep the sand from spilling out too much. Fill it with sand, then nail a top board all the way around it like a rail. Decorate it with some moulding, mud, sand and paint it, and it'll look like you have a 6" plate shelf running at 4' high all around the room. Wife might even think its pretty, and look at all that shelf space!
Shots fired, get below the 4' level. You'll lose a few sq feet of interior dimension, sure.