I tell no one that I am a prepper. All my family knows is that I have a lot of food stored in the cellar and I own a lot of guns and I have a lot of tools and I have a lot of antenna's in the air at my house. The truck is always full of gasoline. The fuel cans in the shed are always full. The generator has been serviced and maintained. There is welding equipment and lot's of junk piles and donor vehicles in the yard. I have certain clothes that I wear and certain clothes that are put away for emergencies and I can stay on my own for extended periods of time with no other human interaction. My needs are very basic and I can support myself for now with my hunting and fishing and woodsman skills.
Most people won't come for very long to hang out because I ask them how they are going to prepare for the future or I put them to work doing something and they usually leave because they don't want to work. You don't work, you don't eat! I couldn't put up with leeches - just living off all my hard work - after they laughed at me when I was investing my money for the future, while they were going out to eat in fancy restaurants, living in nice houses, driving new cars, wasting their money on booze and wild women and acting like big shots and putting me down. If I deemed someone worthy, I would let them stay as long as they worked, but I wouldn't let in people just because they had no place to go.. Most people would starve or succumb to the pressures of the outside world in short order because they couldn't live without their social media or cell phones anyways.