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What is an “Incel”???

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#3 ·
Loser guys who have to [censored], because no woman will have them.

Could also be a guy who has extremely high standards for women, won't take a "dog" even though she would have him (I know a guy like that).

I was very good friends with a guy who never got a woman his whole life (disabled) very nice guy though and would never be a shooter.
 
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Most are too full of themselves to do so (they think they're too good to pay)

If they do deign to find a working gal, these are the guys that beat and kill prostitutes when they can't *perform*

Prostitutes that have been around for awhile that aren't desperate crack whores have learned to recognize them and decline the business. The pimps/madams, too, because "damaged goods" doesn't command as high a price (or at all).

The traffickers in the never-ending supply of underage girls (and boys) will take the business because the supply is pretty much never ending :eek: :mad: :xeye: Especially if they "own" someone that's close to aging out (or wearing out) of the most lucrative markets :eek: :mad: :xeye:
 
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"Incel"? We used to just call them losers back in the day.
 
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Among women, we'd pass the word about these nut jobs to help each other for safety... these were the stalkers, creeps, perverts, guys that wouldn't take no for an answer, guys that would spike/drug a drink... some would rape and/or beat/kill out of anger/frustration, and/or some perverse sense of entitlement/getting even when turned down. Some of these guys really narcissistic.

Golly, this sounds like the ************ at Mall of America :xeye:
 
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I know a guy, used to be a friend.

He had a very high opinion of himself and looked down on everyone around him. One of those "I am a political expert because I listen to an hour of talk radio every day" guys. Wanted the "Stacy's" the hot, high-maintenance, elite type women. Of course none of them would have him. Also wanted them MUCH younger. My husband and I have a 20 year age gap but he went far beyond that. He preferred 30 to even 50 years difference.

He likes sugar daddy arrangements where he controls everything, how much sex, when, how long, how much money will be given and for what, whether she can have a boyfriend, etc. He had one with a girl he put through a vocational school, she was very pretty, high-maintenance type who clearly did not want her photo taken, but he did and showed it to everyone, including me. She looked profoundly unhappy and very angry with the arrangement. I mentioned that and he said "I like it BETTER when they hate it".

He can be very attentive to women and one woman at work knew we knew him, after he retired she was asking me about him. I was vague on his love life and told him, she is really into you, do you want me to give her your number? But she had long gray hair, not long and black, she was "fat", she was "old", etc. so he said no she isn't good enough for me.

Years later he was begging for her - was she still at work, I said no, long gone. Missed the boat. And she is the type, like me, who would stay through anything and give 1000% to her man.

So this year he found another desperate woman, a middle aged waitress who is apparently fat, "old", probably gray or dyed hair. They have a sugar daddy arrangement and he was very smug about it, sharing a lot of details we did not want to hear. That was the last time we called him.

He is just so ANGRY towards women it comes out in everything, so bitter my husband found a devoted wife and he did not...lately I have just not liked being around the man... he's seething all the time.

Hopefully he has mellowed a little with his latest arrangement.
 
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That is pretty much the attitude of my former friend.

One day he told me how great I was for sticking with my husband, the next said it wouldn't be cheating for us (him and me) if there was no penetration. Got an attitude when I said no.

Either I am a good woman or not, but in his view all women are whores and sluts and he deserves "the best" of them. I don't need that in my life so I stopped talking to him.
 
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They are basically raised that they can do no wrong, that everyone ought to adore them, that women ought to pay THEM for sex, I blame bad parenting for a lot of it.

I remember telling a guy in high school, "You don't want the pretty girl. Go find an ugly one, she will love you much better, stand by you, raise your kids while you work and be devoted. A pretty girl will just run off when someone "better" comes along"

And he took my advice. Boys need to be raised with reasonable expectations. My husband always knew it would be a special type that would be attracted to him, damaged goods because like tends to attract like. And that's what happened. We just had our 27th anniversary.

But guys like the one I mentioned are told by their mothers they are extra special and deserve only "the best sort of woman" who will of course have NOTHING to do with him. So he walks around bitter and rageful. I feel sorry for his sugar baby.
 
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I actually have a big D cell Maglight in my pathfinder.

As for the OP, I knew these folks exist, I didn't know they had a slang name for them.
 
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Weird goes beyond race. Example: when the creepy tenant down the street kept coming on my property and tried to come in my open garage one day (ran off when he saw us in it), bothering my drivers, etc. I didn't give a **** he was black. I just wanted him gone.

Now he has moved out and I am happy.
 
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Wow, I thought the posters here were smarter than that. Y’all swallowed that “incels are the big new scary terrorists” line whole and begged for seconds.

“Incels” are just another version of the “white male terrorist” the media wants you to hate.

Pay no attention to the MS-13 members behind the curtain.
 
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From time to time, someone will start a "Biggest SHTF Threat" thread, or something similar, and I usually comment that I think kids and young adults looking to prove themselves will be a serious threat, especially those that travel in gangs/packs already. Ranking a close second would be anyone holding a grudge against someone else (or several someones) who is just waiting for a WROL scenario to take revenge for whatever perceived offense sets them off. Between those two groups, there is plenty of room for those who feel that they're owed the attention of the "beautiful people" and will resort to violence of some degree or another to get that attention.

I recall reading an article a month or two back that included quotes and/or screen captures from an incel message forum. It was some of the most disturbing stuff I've ever seen, and I have been a BBS/forum guy pretty much from the start, when a lot of folks were pretty out in the open where there wasn't much concern of their boss, relatives or anyone from the "general public" stumbling across what they were discussing. With the incel stuff in the article, it sure looked like they didn't care who might be snooping - pretty brazen talk, to say the least.

My concern is that the most disturbing behavior will become accepted in mainstream society.