what's going to happen is they'll try moving in with us. they are already coming to our house door asking for food and $.
If I had a guy that was man enough to look me in the eye and say "My family an I have nowhere to go, nobody we know, and are hungry and filthy. Can you help", I would invite them in, let them use my shower, and offer them anything in my pantry. I don't have much. We're dollars from losing our house every month. I am working a full time job and 2 part time jobs right now, and my wife works as well. We are definitely considered lower class. BUT.... being this close to losing it all, I have a lot of compassion for those that honestly did work hard and still got the shaft. I will be a brother and feed them, and clean them, and even give them my clothes if they need them or if they will fit.
If there are many of these people.... they're welcome to set up a tent in my back yard, but in return I will ask that they maybe do some work around my house or something like that. In return I will buy big bags of beans and rice and do what I can to help to feed them, and give them access to a computer and a phone to try and get a job. Nothing that is mine is so precious to me that I won't let someone else have access to it if it will help them get back on their feet and provide on some level for their family.
Yes it's annoying, but try being on the other end of it.
As for all the lazy meth heads that throw every dollar at drugs and will never learn...... I can't help them..... but if they have children, the child may stay and be taken care of, becasue it isn't their fault their parent is an ignoramus. The parent can go figure out life on their own and come back when they want to see or take their kid again, but for the time I had I would love the child and be a good friend to them as well as I could.
Tents too cold ib the winter? Well.... help me build some sort of storage for my tools and crap and I'll put them there and you may sleep in the garage.
Proved that I can trust you and you pose no threat to my finances, my family, or of being a thief? You may sleep on my couch or on the floor by our dinner table.
Guys..... get a little bit "schindlers list" with your lifes. It's so much more fulfilling. And you will meet some amazing people that just need a little help.
That is all.
PS..... anyone wanna start a tent city if I lose my little shack of a house?