We Americans are complex people. Exceedingly kind and compassionate, yet also considered rude and ugly. Why? It's our directness. A firm handshake, eye contact, and an authoritative voice are considered attributes in our country yet are considered exceedingly rude in other countries. As such, I don't buy the ugly American theme that is put forth by so many. We are who we are. Direct, yet polite, well off but sympathetic to those who are not, proud of our country yet welcoming to those who visit, confident that our way of life is a good one and eager to help others achieve the same thing. While it's true we project our power across the globe, I think we do so because we truly want to help other people.