I think some people are on here just to try and rile things up. You're right, we can't control other people's behavior, we can only control how we react to them. You have an awesome attitude! I'm honored to call you my friend.
I don't know if you saw the end of the cougar forum after it went to the darkside, but my apolgies to you my friend! You were mild compared to what I read on there, before it was totally deleted!!! I think you were totally vindicated!