Actually, It was her. She went bat**** one eve about 2 1/2 years ago, screaming like crazy, then called the police claiming abuse. (Wash't true, I would never.)
But CA now has a law, if there is an accusation, you go to jail. no ifs or questions.
33 years or so of marriage gone in seconds. She discarded half of what I owned. Haven't seen my children since.
BTW, the Henre' thing is because it sounds like "ornery." (Give it a French lilt.)
I used Henre' Neville as a writing name for awhile in Survival blogs.